When Words Become Energy: Mindful Language for Caregivers

 

 

There was a time I didn’t think much about the words I used — they just spilled out, shaped by habit and hurry. But somewhere along the road of caregiving and self-care, I began to feel the weight of them. Not metaphorically — physically.

“I’m so tired.” “I can’t handle this.” “I have to.”
Each phrase carried a heaviness that settled into my body.

Then one day, I caught myself whispering, “I get to.” I get to care for him. I get to witness this stage of his life. It didn’t erase the exhaustion, but something inside shifted. The same task, reframed, no longer drained me — it honored both of us.

During the pandemic, when words were one of the few things I could control, I began posting short reflections about language and energy. They reminded me (and others) that what we say is not neutral — it vibrates. It shapes how we experience our own stories.

So now, when I catch myself saying, “I can’t wait,” I pause and say, “I’m looking forward to it.” When I feel like I’m running out of patience, I say, “I’m finding calm.” It’s not denial — it’s direction.

Because every word sends a signal.
And that signal builds the life around us.

Prompt: What’s one phrase you could soften or reframe this week?

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